Stop Cheating Your Kids - Give Them a Real Education!

To begin, although I am a former collegefamilies in your community and see if they can fit
president and have worked as a consultant inin another pupil. My wife owns a bookstore and
higher education for for 30 years, I do not claim,consequently deals with many of the parents and
in any sense, to be an expert on eduction. I cankids of home schoolers. I can tell you for a fact
however share my experiences and observationsthat they are invariably well spoken, polite and far,
with you and you can decide for yourself.far above their public school counterparts in
People are fond of saying today that oureducational abilities.
government is broken and needs to be fixed andPrivate schools are growing rapidly and
they're right. What puzzles me is the fact thatscholarships are available in many of them. The
many people, parents, college professors, plainmovement was started by conservative
ordinary citizens, have known that our primaryChristians who did not like the atmosphere or the
and secondary education systems have beeneducational bent or the progress their child was
broken for years and have refused to domaking in public schools. Yes, many private
anything about it. Why are not people up in arms,schools do tend to indoctrinate their students in
where are the "tea parties" to demand that ourreligious ways but I suspect that when their
kids stop being held hostage to an educationalgraduates get out into the world, their attitudes
system that rewards mediocrity, focuses almostwill change somewhat. I know that I have never
entirely on "self-esteem" and consistently churnsmet a student in a church-related school that also
out education graduates, many of whom arewasn't polite, well spoken and confident of their
functional illiterates.educational talents.
How many young people do you need to interactFinally, there is the Charter School movement, a
with before you find out they can't read, can'thybrid of public and private education. It's
write and can't articulate a position other thanunfortunate that many of them have political
about their favorite pop star? Face it - most kidsovertones but they are worth investigating.
in school today are just plain dumb! And it's notFace it, a student can only learn what knowledge
their fault. I don't mean to suggest they have nohis or her teacher has to impart. Certainly any kid
intellectual ability, I mean it has never beencan learn a lot outside the classroom and in a
challenged and a muscle not used is a muscle thatlibrary, but the basic motivation has to come
will soon atrophy.from the classroom. If you have a functional
The problem began years ago when teachersilliterate standing in front of the class, or someone
joined a union and ceased to be professionals.trying to teach a subject where their in-depth
Their focus went from being good teachers toknowledge of it is sadly lacking, not much learning
being good union members and everyone knowsis going to take place. They might be experts in
what happened then. Coupled with that fact waslaying out a lesson plan which duplicates what they
the entrance of "new teaching methods" and welearned in college or pleases their administrators
were told that these far surpassed the old idea ofbut a plan is useless if the only result it produces
teaching children to read at their own age level,is failure, or close to it.
do math, learn to spell and how to write aI was president of a college that offered
coherent sentence. If you don't believe me, askengineering and science. In order for a foreign
your parents.student to enter as a freshmen we required a
As a parent of four kids I think I am qualified tobachelors degree from their home university.
give you the answer. First, recognize that yourThen they had to start all over again. Why,
school system is a failure and it will get worse.because we knew that otherwise, their
Second, be honest with yourself about theknowledge of English, familiarity with math that
educational abilities of your kids. If you are atwas not based on the metric system and our
least in your mid 30's you should be able tomethod of writing and conversing would only
recognize whether you would hire one of yourhandicap them in what was a very vigorous
kids to do a meaningful job. Incidentally, if theycurriculum. Harsh? Absolutely. But we were
have "tats" or body piercings you can scratchconcerned that after traveling long distances from
them off the potential hiring lists. If they look liketheir home, moving to a foreign land with
losers they will be losers. My wife and I both rundifferent customs and dealing with facts and
successful business and I wouldn't let them in thefigures that would be unfamiliar to them, we had
front door to discuss a job opening.the obligation to give them every chance to
So what are your options? It's tool late tosucceed, even if it meant repeating what they
improve public education unless all the schoolhad already gone through. Today your kids are
districts did like the one in Long Island recentlyheading for the same fate when they get to
and fired all the teachers and most of thecollege and find out they need a year of remedial
administrators. I could write a book about thatcourses just to compete.
wonderful decision but this is about your kids, notWith the costs of higher education going through
those. You really only have two choices, homethe roof, the public "education" your children are
school and private school. Many people would likereceiving could cost you another years' tuition!
to home school but simply don't have the time.Think about it.
What you can do is find some home-schooling