Homeschooling - the darker side

Homeschooling - the darker sideYou cannot take a break when you feel like it.
Homeschooling - the darker sideFeelings of guiltwill assail you if you neglect studies
It's not all hunky-dory and smooth sailing on thejust because you arefeeling blue. You also fear
homeschoolingfront. Like all things in life,Visit herethat the child will take advantage ofthe situation.
nowEven when you have given homework, you have
 there is a downside that has to beseriouslyto bearound to give a helping hand. This means
considered when you explore the homeschoolingthat anytime your childis around you, you are on
option.duty! For some, this may mean workingevery
Though one man's bane may be another man'swaking hour. The child studying at home also
boon, there are certaincommon reasons forneeds to getout more. This comes from staying
concern.at home all the time.
The responsibility of teaching your child restsInteraction with adults and other children needs to
solely on you. Youcannot blame anyone else ifbe givenspecial attention.
your child is seen wanting in theskills that his peersChildren tutored at home cannot develop in the
excel in. If your child cannot do the thingsthat arevarious directionsthat are open to children
expected from other children of his age group,attending public schools. To achievethat kind of
itreflects badly on you as an educator as well asexposure, you either have to be a
a parent.super-parentskilled in everything, or enroll your
A critical part of homeschooling is the time thatchild to various activities.
you have tospend with your children. You mayThis may not only prove too costly, but also
have to give up your friends,shopping and otherbecounter-productive.
entertainment and dedicate all these to yourchild.It is sometimes observed that homeschooled
This can become frustrating at times. You havechildren do not do aswell in SAT tests as their
to learn totake the aggravation with equanimityschool-going counterparts. Without adiploma or a
and wait for the rewards withpatience andGED, some students find it difficult to get into
enthusiasm.themilitary.
A parent who is dedicated to tutor his or her childLastly, if you envision enrolling your child to a
singlehandedly does not realistically have muchpublic school,there may be a certain period of
time left over for acareer. This means that theemotional as well as socialadjustment. A child who
family is robbed of an additionalsource of income.is used to being at home for the whole dayand
In turn, this may lead to stress over finances.enjoying so much of uncontained freedom may
You will have to train yourself to live on a strictlyhave to undergosome distressing emotional
controlledbudget. While this is a matter of habit, itupheavals before he or she gets used tothe
does need some gettingused to.rigors of a regular school life.