Homeschooling and the Single Parent

Stories about a disturbing number of parentsDeath and divorce are the main reasons why a
abandoning their children in Nebraska haveperson might be left a single parent. Although
captured national headlines. A safe haven law withbehavior issues rise in all types of children, those
an unfortunate loophole allows parents to drop offwho have experienced a death or divorce are
their children at any hospital in the state withoutmore likely to exhibit behavior problems. For these
consequence. Although the law was initiallychildren in particular, home schooling is the best
designed to protect infants in unwantedoption. Children who have lost a parent crave
circumstances, parents of older children are usingstability and need to feel like they can trust the
this law as a way out of difficult situations. Theseadults who are still in their world. A parent who is
types of stories shine a negative light on allpresent consistently will have more insight into
parents across the nation, stealing the spotlighttheir child's behaviors and know how to best
away from truly newsworthy parents.handle them. It's hard to provide consistency
Headlines rarely feature the small group ofwhen you are a single parent responsible for
dedicated single parents willing to give uphandling all things, without taking a break. But,
everything to provide the best education possiblesingle parent home schoolers consent that their
for their children. This growing group of singlechildren are worth all the sacrifices.
parents may not get the recognition that theySupport for Learning Disabilities
deserve, but the movement continues to expand.Just because a child has a learning disability does
It seems impossible that a single parent would benot mean that they must be enrolled in public
able to home school their children when in factschool. One of the most common childhood
they must work full time to support their family.learning disabilities, ADHD, had been proven to be
Bearing in mind a few vital factors, this difficultbest taught in the home. The advantage of having
task can be accomplished.children with learning disabilities taught in the home
Flexibility Factoris that parents can tailor the curriculum specifically
When children attend a traditional school theyto their needs. In a classroom of 30 children, the
must conform to the school curriculum andteacher will not be able to give a child with a
schedule. However, when a child is home schooled,learning disability the time or attention necessary
there is much more flexibility. For example,for their success. When parents teach their
classes can take place at times convenient forchildren, they give them their undivided attention,
both parent and child such as on evenings orwhich leads to understanding their unique needs
weekends. That flexibility is possible because aand better addressing those needs.
home schooled child may not require as muchIf you think your child has difficulty learning, have
time to learn a lesson as a whole classroom ofyour child evaluated by a professional. Finding out
students. In addition, there are curriculum availablethe specific disability will help parents research the
where older children can work independently, thennature of the disability and the most appropriate
review with an adult.practices for teaching the child. Knowing the
Family Factorspecific disability will also help parents get
A single parent needs to secure the assistance ofconnected with support groups made up of other
friends and families in order to be successful withparents. Support groups can often be found online.
a home school program. Some fortunate parentsSeminars are available to empower parents to
already have a close knit support group withindeal with specific disabilities. Never believe that
their own communities. Other parents may needchildren with disabilities are better off in public
to relocate in order to be closer to familyschool. A special education teacher deals with such
members who are willing to help. Churches area wide variety of disabilities that they only scratch
also filed with people who are more than willing tothe surface of each. As the parents of one child
lend a hand to single parents in their attempt towith a disability, you would become a subject
educate their children. Some churches even havematter expert in your child's disability. Your love
programs for home schoolers. Often, participatingand concern as a parent qualifies you as the best
families are happy to include children of singleteacher.
parents on trips and special events. Even someChild-focused Curriculum
babysitters may be willing to work on academicsSingle parents home schoolers have found that
while watching the children. It is possible to findthe best curriculum for them is the child-taught
support by simply reaching out.one. Robinson Curriculum is one such curriculum
Faith Factorthat has proven results throughout the years. It
Some home schooling parents are willing to takewas developed for her children by Laurelee
the risk of working from home. For some, aRobinson, whose husband was left a
career change is necessary in order to be able tosingle-parents home schooler after her passing.
work from home. For others, it means workingThe children began to teach themselves with
out a work-from-home deal with their company.much success. These types of curriculum's give
Wise financial planning and budgeting play a majorsingle parents the freedom to guide their children
role in successfully implementing a home schoolingin their learning, without the hassle of preparing
program. Shopping at yard sales, consignmentand teaching lessons.
shops and good will stores may be a necessity.Being a single parent requires great strength,
Other sacrifices such as downgrading a vehicle orcommitment and support from others. No one
moving into a smaller home may also beplans to be a single parent. But when caught in
necessary in order to afford less hours of work.that situation, many parents are choosing to
Parents need to have faith in themselves andsacrifice even more in order to provide their
know that although these are significant sacrifices,children the best education possible. In the end,
they are well worth it.these parents have no doubt that they are doing
Behavioral Issuesthe best for their child.