Graduation Ceremonies and Homeschooling - It's Not Oil and Water!

Education is a funny thing, particularly forable to support a growing mind than the family
homeschoolers and those who question it. One ofmembers who know the child best? While not
the more common questions I am asked byevery mom or dad is a natural teacher, the
non-homeschool families, believe it or not, is aboutplethora of materials and training tools, teacher
things such as graduation ceremonies and proms,resources and aids will allow any mom or dad to
as if those had something to do with theuse their curricula effectively and to educate their
education process of preparing and equipping ourchild with integrity and intentionality if they
students for future studies in college and life.become learners themselves and seek out any
However, the point can be made that a thoroughsupport they need from homeschool coaches or
preparation for life includes markers ofother homeschoolers.
achievement and celebrations, so missing out onAnd so along with the abundance of rewards that
those things seems difficult for those who mightcome from homeschooling their children,
otherwise consider homeschooling.homeschoolers also have created opportunities to
But the issue of ceremonies and homeschooling iscelebrate life together. There are community
not an "either/or" situation. Homeschoolers knowgraduation ceremonies and dances, coop classes
this, but non-homeschooling families don't seem toand sports teams. There is no shortage of things
understand or accept that you can do both.that homeschool families can participate in if they
Homeschooling is a choice in education, notwish, but these are not required parts of
deprivation. Homeschool families are not choosingeducation, so each family is able to make their
to limit their children's opportunities, but rather toown schedules and serve their own visions and
increase them through more intense preparation.goals as best fit their needs. Homeschoolers can
Homeschool families do not seek to omit lifedo volunteer work, community service, take on
celebrations, but they choose to mark themapprentice type positions in fields that they are
together, sometimes uniquely.interested in, and so much more. But, they can
Philosophically, homeschooling is about the desirealso train up their children with solid academic skills,
to educate and train our children in ways thatspending the necessary time to have each child
allow them the individualized opportunity to learn,master the content of any given subject before
grow in wisdom, gain intellectual skills, etc., but inmoving on, and do so in a safe, loving, supportive
an environment that lets the family participate inenvironment where life is celebrated daily in the
the process more fully and be true to their owncircle of family members who live it out together.
personal goals and objectives. Who will better be