Home Schooling In The 21st Century - 5 Pitfalls To Avoid For New Home Schooling Parents

Teaching is not a perfect science. There are soPitfall 3: Involving the learner in the adult aspects
many variables. Students, teachers, environmentof the program
the list could go on forever! Here are 5 of theHome teaching can be an all too consuming job at
more common pitfalls that can be avoided if youthe best of times. Often we will openly air our
are aware of them!frustrations or expectations without considering
Pitfall 1: Teaching every single thing in the outlinedwhat little ears may be hearing. Many
curriculumhomeschooling parents were not home schooled
When facing any curriculum for the first time youthemselves and carry with them their own
must understand "what " in fact the curriculum iseducational expectations. Releasing these and
and how you might use it in your program.entering the unschooling mode for many is a
Curriculum are designed to teach materials to adifficult transition.
cross section of learners. Therefore it is filled toSolution:
the brim with materials so that every obviousHave a homeschooling "confidante" that you are
category of learner is catered to. It would thenable to communicate with openly to air all pent up
be an almost ridiculous notion to think you arefeelings! (out of the range of little ears of course!)
intended to cover the materials in their entirety,Pitfall 4: Not allowing time for student to "play"
regardless of their relevance to your learner.with concepts in learning
Solution:As adults we often get far to serious about the
Take your time to understand the outlinedcontext of learning. Some of the most profound
"objectives" and decide how you might USE thelearning experiences or discoveries happen quite
curriculum as a teaching tool to meet theseby accident. Think of the guy who sat in his bath
objectives.tub and realized the water level rose!
Pitfall 2: Thinking "more" is betterSolution:
I have observed many well intentioned educatorsSee play as the "active research" portion of your
urge a student to write just one more sentence.program. Playful minds are curious minds open to
"You wrote the first 3 sentences so beautifully,discover! Keep an eye on those water level rising
just write 3 more."moments! They are there.
As I watched a whole creative writing experiencePitfall 5: Forgetting learning can be fun!
unravel I was left asking "What would 3 moreAgain in the terribly serious world of adulthood we
sentences have told us?" Quantity does notoften forget learning can actually be fun. It is very
communicate depth of understanding. It merelydifficult to judge what your child is going to be
tells us that a particular student has a particularfully engaged in . Your student may find
ease with this form of expression. A student ablesomething you deplore, fun. How could this be?
to produce small amounts of good quality selfWell you are different people and different things
expression may be insulted and intellectuallywill resonate with each of you.
derailed by such a thoughtless request.Solution:
Solution:Draw a venn diagram with your child and fill in
Be open to sharing with your student that youyour differences and similarities. This will help both
are looking for thoughtful works that spark yourof you appreciate participating in different aspects
curiosity. Encourage thoughtful and meaningfulof one another lives - whether you find it fun or
communication with regards to the curriculumnot!
content. Being positive and curious are twoLive, learn and compromise!
behaviors kids enjoy most.