| Romance in a relationship is what keeps it on | | | | her love for you will deepen.He Needs - A |
| all four wheels. A relationship simply cannot | | | | recreational partnerHe loves his girl to do |
| grow and thrive without it. Men and women | | | | things with him. To go to movies, to go |
| were made so differently that what comes | | | | camping, to just sit and enjoy a television |
| natural to one, is a learning process for the | | | | program. He needs to have you take an |
| other. It works both directions with | | | | interest in what he is interested in.She |
| different things. The key is learning to grow | | | | Needs - HELP!A woman needs a man who takes |
| together by letting those thing bring you | | | | some of the chores off of her shoulders. Do |
| together rather than pull you apart. Finding | | | | this, men, and you will find her looking you |
| out what the other person needs and putting | | | | over more often. It shows a gal that you care |
| actions behind the new-found knowledge is the | | | | and conveys that you love her. I'm not trying |
| beginning of wisdom within that relationship. | | | | to turn us men into little house slaves. Just |
| When you center your attentions and energies | | | | suggesting that taking some initiative around |
| on the other person, it has a wonderful way | | | | the home without being asked will turn her |
| of not only putting your relationship into | | | | on. Try it.Here's an additional tip for you, |
| overdrive, but a strange way of coming back | | | | guys. I won't charge you extra either. Make |
| to you. And that is wonderful too! Romance is | | | | her a cup of coffee or tea without being |
| the key. Here are a few helpful tips for you | | | | asked. Romance her with a surprise back rub. |
| both:She Needs - CommunicationA study says | | | | Buy her a little gift. Most women appreciate |
| that the average woman uses 25,000 words a | | | | small, thoughtful gifts rather than large |
| day and five tones of speech, while the | | | | extravagant ones. She'll respond to your |
| average man uses only 12,000 words and three | | | | attention in very positive ways.You Both Need |
| tones. "Men are talk-impaired, relatively | | | | - EncouragementTake time to give each other |
| speaking," the study points out. This is not | | | | props. Concentrate on the other person's |
| a back-handed slap to men. I'm one. Just the | | | | strengths. Purposefully give words of |
| facts about the way we were created so | | | | encouragement. Never tear each other down, |
| different from women. That is why a woman can | | | | but always build each other up. Do you each |
| talk on the phone to her friend for hours and | | | | have a dream? Be each other's cheerleader and |
| a man will get right to the point of the | | | | let them know you are behind them 100%.You |
| conversation and immediately terminate the | | | | Both Need - Date NightsCourting shouldn't end |
| call. By the time a man has gotten home from | | | | after dating. In fact, it should increase. |
| work, he has used up all of his words at the | | | | The excitement of dating each other is |
| office or throughout his day away. At dinner, | | | | something that should be a part of your |
| his mate still has 5,000 words left and they | | | | weekly schedule until the day you die. Take a |
| need to be heard by someone. Guess who? ;)She | | | | day each week or two and go out to a meal, a |
| needs to talk to her man. Communication is | | | | movie, a play, a romantic walk. Bring her |
| romance to her. She wants to hear about your | | | | flowers. Try something new. Laugh together. |
| life, men, and share her day with you. This | | | | Tell him he looks especially handsome |
| is so important. Take time to talk.He Needs - | | | | tonight. Let him know that you appreciate the |
| RespectA man needs to be respected. By his | | | | things he does and you're proud of him. |
| fellow employees, by his children, by his | | | | Positive strokes will get you both |
| friends and especially by his girl. Respect | | | | everywhere! Those special, planned date |
| is part of a man's love language. In the same | | | | nights will keep the home fire burning.I |
| way that a woman needs love, a man needs | | | | could go on and on about successful |
| respect. That is the equivalent of love for | | | | relationships and how to spark the romance. |
| him. He needs to know that he's needed, he | | | | I've been married for 21-years as of 1985. |
| needs to be considered, that what he does | | | | I'm not exactly a newlywed. I know what works |
| matters and makes a difference. Respect is | | | | because I've taken the time to, first, find |
| vital to a man. Tell him how much you | | | | out and, second, to take action and implement |
| appreciate what he does for the family. Stick | | | | the great stuff I learned into my marriage. |
| little notes of gratitude in his coat for him | | | | Most of my learning was taught by the School |
| to find. It will make a huge difference in | | | | of Hard Knocks. The thing is, I eventually |
| his countenance.The next time his voice | | | | got it and boy, am I happy that I did. My |
| raises over something that you may have said, | | | | relationship with my wife is more red-hot |
| ladies, chances are he feels disrespected for | | | | than when we first met.So, start with those |
| some reason. Ask him about it. His stature | | | | things. Work on your relationship with one |
| will change for the better when you care | | | | another. Take time to be together every day. |
| enough to ask, his love for you will grow and | | | | Make each other a priority. Find out what |
| romance will follow.She Needs - Her man to | | | | makes each other tick. Learn to love and |
| spend time with the childrenThere is nothing | | | | respect one another. Remember two important |
| sexier to a woman than a man that takes time | | | | things: love is a verb and your mate is not |
| to spend with their children. I know that | | | | your enemy. Romance is a key to each others |
| sounds strange, but it is absolutely true. | | | | heart. The pay-off will be a life-long |
| Ask your wife. She'll tell you. Take the kids | | | | love.Tony Thomas has been happily married to |
| to the park, wrestle with them, talk to them | | | | his high school sweetheart for 21 years. He |
| and read them a story when you tuck them into | | | | loves to share what makes his relationship |
| bed. Giving attention to your children is | | | | with his wife hotter and more intimate than |
| like giving attention to her. She notices and | | | | it was the first days they were together. |