| Romance in a relationship is what keeps it on all | | | | and her love for you will deepen.He Needs - A |
| four wheels. A relationship simply cannot grow | | | | recreational partnerHe loves his girl to do things |
| and thrive without it. Men and women were made | | | | with him. To go to movies, to go camping, to just |
| so differently that what comes natural to one, is | | | | sit and enjoy a television program. He needs to |
| a learning process for the other. It works both | | | | have you take an interest in what he is interested |
| directions with different things. The key is learning | | | | in.She Needs - HELP!A woman needs a man who |
| to grow together by letting those thing bring you | | | | takes some of the chores off of her shoulders. |
| together rather than pull you apart. Finding out | | | | Do this, men, and you will find her looking you |
| what the other person needs and putting actions | | | | over more often. It shows a gal that you care |
| behind the new-found knowledge is the beginning | | | | and conveys that you love her. I'm not trying to |
| of wisdom within that relationship. When you | | | | turn us men into little house slaves. Just |
| center your attentions and energies on the other | | | | suggesting that taking some initiative around the |
| person, it has a wonderful way of not only putting | | | | home without being asked will turn her on. Try |
| your relationship into overdrive, but a strange | | | | it.Here's an additional tip for you, guys. I won't |
| way of coming back to you. And that is | | | | charge you extra either. Make her a cup of |
| wonderful too! Romance is the key. Here are a | | | | coffee or tea without being asked. Romance her |
| few helpful tips for you both:She Needs - | | | | with a surprise back rub. Buy her a little gift. Most |
| CommunicationA study says that the average | | | | women appreciate small, thoughtful gifts rather |
| woman uses 25,000 words a day and five tones | | | | than large extravagant ones. She'll respond to |
| of speech, while the average man uses only | | | | your attention in very positive ways.You Both |
| 12,000 words and three tones. "Men are | | | | Need - EncouragementTake time to give each |
| talk-impaired, relatively speaking," the study points | | | | other props. Concentrate on the other person's |
| out. This is not a back-handed slap to men. I'm | | | | strengths. Purposefully give words of |
| one. Just the facts about the way we were | | | | encouragement. Never tear each other down, but |
| created so different from women. That is why a | | | | always build each other up. Do you each have a |
| woman can talk on the phone to her friend for | | | | dream? Be each other's cheerleader and let them |
| hours and a man will get right to the point of the | | | | know you are behind them 100%.You Both Need |
| conversation and immediately terminate the call. | | | | - Date NightsCourting shouldn't end after dating. In |
| By the time a man has gotten home from work, | | | | fact, it should increase. The excitement of dating |
| he has used up all of his words at the office or | | | | each other is something that should be a part of |
| throughout his day away. At dinner, his mate still | | | | your weekly schedule until the day you die. Take |
| has 5,000 words left and they need to be heard | | | | a day each week or two and go out to a meal, a |
| by someone. Guess who? ;)She needs to talk to | | | | movie, a play, a romantic walk. Bring her flowers. |
| her man. Communication is romance to her. She | | | | Try something new. Laugh together. Tell him he |
| wants to hear about your life, men, and share her | | | | looks especially handsome tonight. Let him know |
| day with you. This is so important. Take time to | | | | that you appreciate the things he does and you're |
| talk.He Needs - RespectA man needs to be | | | | proud of him. Positive strokes will get you both |
| respected. By his fellow employees, by his | | | | everywhere! Those special, planned date nights will |
| children, by his friends and especially by his girl. | | | | keep the home fire burning.I could go on and on |
| Respect is part of a man's love language. In the | | | | about successful relationships and how to spark |
| same way that a woman needs love, a man | | | | the romance. I've been married for 21-years as |
| needs respect. That is the equivalent of love for | | | | of 1985. I'm not exactly a newlywed. I know |
| him. He needs to know that he's needed, he | | | | what works because I've taken the time to, first, |
| needs to be considered, that what he does | | | | find out and, second, to take action and |
| matters and makes a difference. Respect is vital | | | | implement the great stuff I learned into my |
| to a man. Tell him how much you appreciate what | | | | marriage. Most of my learning was taught by the |
| he does for the family. Stick little notes of | | | | School of Hard Knocks. The thing is, I eventually |
| gratitude in his coat for him to find. It will make a | | | | got it and boy, am I happy that I did. My |
| huge difference in his countenance.The next time | | | | relationship with my wife is more red-hot than |
| his voice raises over something that you may | | | | when we first met.So, start with those things. |
| have said, ladies, chances are he feels | | | | Work on your relationship with one another. Take |
| disrespected for some reason. Ask him about it. | | | | time to be together every day. Make each other |
| His stature will change for the better when you | | | | a priority. Find out what makes each other tick. |
| care enough to ask, his love for you will grow and | | | | Learn to love and respect one another. |
| romance will follow.She Needs - Her man to spend | | | | Remember two important things: love is a verb |
| time with the childrenThere is nothing sexier to a | | | | and your mate is not your enemy. Romance is a |
| woman than a man that takes time to spend | | | | key to each others heart. The pay-off will be a |
| with their children. I know that sounds strange, | | | | life-long love.Tony Thomas has been happily |
| but it is absolutely true. Ask your wife. She'll tell | | | | married to his high school sweetheart for 21 |
| you. Take the kids to the park, wrestle with | | | | years. He loves to share what makes his |
| them, talk to them and read them a story when | | | | relationship with his wife hotter and more intimate |
| you tuck them into bed. Giving attention to your | | | | than it was the first days they were together. |
| children is like giving attention to her. She notices | | | | |