Romance - Learn How To Keep The Home Fires Burning

Romance in a relationship is what keeps it on alland her love for you will deepen.He Needs - A
four wheels. A relationship simply cannot growrecreational partnerHe loves his girl to do things
and thrive without it. Men and women were madewith him. To go to movies, to go camping, to just
so differently that what comes natural to one, issit and enjoy a television program. He needs to
a learning process for the other. It works bothhave you take an interest in what he is interested
directions with different things. The key is learningin.She Needs - HELP!A woman needs a man who
to grow together by letting those thing bring youtakes some of the chores off of her shoulders.
together rather than pull you apart. Finding outDo this, men, and you will find her looking you
what the other person needs and putting actionsover more often. It shows a gal that you care
behind the new-found knowledge is the beginningand conveys that you love her. I'm not trying to
of wisdom within that relationship. When youturn us men into little house slaves. Just
center your attentions and energies on the othersuggesting that taking some initiative around the
person, it has a wonderful way of not only puttinghome without being asked will turn her on. Try
your relationship into overdrive, but a strangeit.Here's an additional tip for you, guys. I won't
way of coming back to you. And that ischarge you extra either. Make her a cup of
wonderful too! Romance is the key. Here are acoffee or tea without being asked. Romance her
few helpful tips for you both:She Needs -with a surprise back rub. Buy her a little gift. Most
CommunicationA study says that the averagewomen appreciate small, thoughtful gifts rather
woman uses 25,000 words a day and five tonesthan large extravagant ones. She'll respond to
of speech, while the average man uses onlyyour attention in very positive ways.You Both
12,000 words and three tones. "Men areNeed - EncouragementTake time to give each
talk-impaired, relatively speaking," the study pointsother props. Concentrate on the other person's
out. This is not a back-handed slap to men. I'mstrengths. Purposefully give words of
one. Just the facts about the way we wereencouragement. Never tear each other down, but
created so different from women. That is why aalways build each other up. Do you each have a
woman can talk on the phone to her friend fordream? Be each other's cheerleader and let them
hours and a man will get right to the point of theknow you are behind them 100%.You Both Need
conversation and immediately terminate the call.- Date NightsCourting shouldn't end after dating. In
By the time a man has gotten home from work,fact, it should increase. The excitement of dating
he has used up all of his words at the office oreach other is something that should be a part of
throughout his day away. At dinner, his mate stillyour weekly schedule until the day you die. Take
has 5,000 words left and they need to be hearda day each week or two and go out to a meal, a
by someone. Guess who? ;)She needs to talk tomovie, a play, a romantic walk. Bring her flowers.
her man. Communication is romance to her. SheTry something new. Laugh together. Tell him he
wants to hear about your life, men, and share herlooks especially handsome tonight. Let him know
day with you. This is so important. Take time tothat you appreciate the things he does and you're
talk.He Needs - RespectA man needs to beproud of him. Positive strokes will get you both
respected. By his fellow employees, by hiseverywhere! Those special, planned date nights will
children, by his friends and especially by his girl.keep the home fire burning.I could go on and on
Respect is part of a man's love language. In theabout successful relationships and how to spark
same way that a woman needs love, a manthe romance. I've been married for 21-years as
needs respect. That is the equivalent of love forof 1985. I'm not exactly a newlywed. I know
him. He needs to know that he's needed, hewhat works because I've taken the time to, first,
needs to be considered, that what he doesfind out and, second, to take action and
matters and makes a difference. Respect is vitalimplement the great stuff I learned into my
to a man. Tell him how much you appreciate whatmarriage. Most of my learning was taught by the
he does for the family. Stick little notes ofSchool of Hard Knocks. The thing is, I eventually
gratitude in his coat for him to find. It will make agot it and boy, am I happy that I did. My
huge difference in his countenance.The next timerelationship with my wife is more red-hot than
his voice raises over something that you maywhen we first met.So, start with those things.
have said, ladies, chances are he feelsWork on your relationship with one another. Take
disrespected for some reason. Ask him about it.time to be together every day. Make each other
His stature will change for the better when youa priority. Find out what makes each other tick.
care enough to ask, his love for you will grow andLearn to love and respect one another.
romance will follow.She Needs - Her man to spendRemember two important things: love is a verb
time with the childrenThere is nothing sexier to aand your mate is not your enemy. Romance is a
woman than a man that takes time to spendkey to each others heart. The pay-off will be a
with their children. I know that sounds strange,life-long love.Tony Thomas has been happily
but it is absolutely true. Ask your wife. She'll tellmarried to his high school sweetheart for 21
you. Take the kids to the park, wrestle withyears. He loves to share what makes his
them, talk to them and read them a story whenrelationship with his wife hotter and more intimate
you tuck them into bed. Giving attention to yourthan it was the first days they were together.
children is like giving attention to her. She notices